Should I tell my girlfriend that her sister's baby might be mine?
It turns out my girlfriend's sister just found out she's pregnant..a little bit after I had a drunken mishap and slept with her (they're twins and me and my girlfriend live together...stupid but besides the point). Being black and with her being Irish...it might be somewhat obvious that the baby is mine. However, my girlfriend is is almost fully blind...should I just let this pass and hope she won't recognize the baby's skin color or should I confess?
Public Comments
- yes, tell her
- confess
- I don't believe this...but yeah obviously you have to do what's right, that's a no-brainer.
- You should tell the truth, better for her to find out from you then from someone else.
- you are not serious!
- you need to tell her
- If the baby is yours you need to step up and take responsibility, she wont be happy about it but rather her find out now than later...what does her sister think, does she think its you. How about talking to her sister first, good luck~
- O.M.G.
- confess stupid! duh! that's just, idk? but be a man dn't just run away i mean you might BE A FATHER!!!
- I think; You should go on the Maury show :D
- You should tell her because if you get it over now, maybe she will forgive then waiting weeks, months, or even year. The end result wont be as bad if you tell her asap
- wow!!! CONFESSS RITE NOWWW!
- confess buy presents anything, just do it fast, if she finds out you are so dead and don't forget the sister can always tell, never leave it to chance, just tell her and explain if you don't wanna lose her!!!
- Well, if your girlfriend is almost blind...why are you concerned about it.
- go to the maury show and confess
- Well, if your girlfriend was having a baby with your brother, would you like to know?
- Tell her. It's better to be honest now than for her to find out in a couple years down the road. Talk to the sister first, so you can tell her together.
- Discuss this situation with your girfriend her sister and you.
- This question is a joke, right?
- 1) You have to tell her, because everybody else is not blind. 2) You have to tell her since you have responsibilities (financial & moral) to this child. The child does not deserve to be secretly parented. 3) You have to tell her so that she has the choice/chance to decide whether she wants to stay with you and whether she has the will to get past this. Basically, your girlfriend deserves some respect. This is not a case of 'what she doesn't know won't hurt her'. If it was just cheating with someone who is not her sister and there was no child, I would have a different answer. Sorry...
- Are you serious. Blind. She still will find out her friends, family and others around her..Come on...Tell your girlfriend you slept with her sister and the babies might be yours and step up and take responsibility if they are yours. Do this or she might find out that they are yours when her sister takes you to court for child support
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