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My ex girlfriend wont let me take a DNA test to see if her new baby is mine. How do I find out if it's mine?

She has changed her phone number and moved. We don't live in the same city. We went out for 7 years. We last had sex nine months before she gave birth. HELP ME!

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1. get a lawyer and get a court order
2. take her to court and force her to have a dna test done. At least that way you will know for sure one way or the other. good luck
3. Contact a lawyer to see if you have any rights to request a paternity test where you live first of all, then go from there. If you have rights to find out, then since she seems to be running, it will probably have to go through court proceedings just to get an order for it.
4. You can get a court order. They will force her, and that sucks she won't let you know. This sounds like it's going to be an ugly battle for visitation. Good Luck !
5. If she sues for child support, you can ask for a paternity test. If you want to know because you want to be part of the child's life, then it's trickier. I don't think there's anything legally you can do. I would suggest contacting her by writing a letter. Let her know that you're interested in being the child's father. See if she is open to discussing that with you. I don't know if asking for a test would upset her, so try to be tactful about it.
6. well u make sure its yours you can take her to court if she refuses to do so. better finding out than spending the rest of your life wondering if that child is really yours!!!!
7. you can take her to court, you have the right to know!
8. She cannot deny you the right to ease your worries with a DNA test. No court will uphold her right to refuse, claiming future child support will be contingent on biological science, not her word against yours. Parents cannot be invented!
9. I would probably try my chances at your local child welfare office and go to the department that goes after people for child support and tell them your situation and see if they can help you, also go to her family and friends houses to see if they will help you with Information and if so take that to the child welfare office and see if they can find her.if you know her social that would be a plus. If you are a good guy, you should be in the baby's life.
10. You can take her to court and demand one. Or call the Maury show ;) just kidding. you have a better shot at a test calling a lawyer and he'll help you out. Maybe your not the father and that's why she is avoiding you and did everything possible to lose contact with you. Good Luck! Hopefully you get the answer you desire!