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Be honest ladies - sex life after baby :)? I was curious, I am going to be giving birth to my first child in 2 weeks and I wanted to know something ... making love to my hubby is very important to me and will always be even when our baby grows up and lives on his own ... so.... women who breast-feed .. have you noticed that you were simply not in the mood to make love to your hubby due to dryness in vagina and sore breasts? Or has your love life improved despite these physical/mental 'tiredness' that comes with breast feeding.. Bottle feeding mothers ... when did you go back into love making mode and do you feel that if you had chosen to breast feed your sex life would have never been back to the way it always has been - before the baby came into your life... Thank you!! Have a great weekend.

My girlfriend is American i am British,she is pregnant with my baby.she doesnt want to move here so i have to.? move over there to West Virginia if i want to be involved in the pregnancy and the first year of the child's life.. I cant afford to miss this as i never really knew my father therefore it is of the highest importance to me that i can actually get out there and be a part of my lady and babies life...I know that i can stay there for 3 months on the visa waiver program which was my plan for the immediate future but obviouslly i now have to think about actually emigrating for the sake of having a stable family. What is the best and most logical way i could go about this...p.s. would the child have dual nationality too? Would sincerely appreciate sensible answers...Thanks

My aunt was in a car accident and she hit a pregnant lady and the baby died.? what could happen to her legally. she had no insurance and no license and is illegal. it was her fault. She lives lives Texas the lady was 8 months pregnant and lost the baby but the lady survived

HEY MARLENE, WILL U BE THE LADY IN MY LIFE? cuz i love u !! rejean get a life and leave my baby alone

can anyone analyze this dream for me please? i had this dream last night i'd like to analyze but i'm not good with analyzing dreams even if i use one of those websites that help you. anyways here's my dream i was walking to somewher with my friend and a baby boy (about 1 1/2 maybe 2) and then the baby runs to this one guy that neither me or my friend knows and they J-walk across the street together. i want to go across the street to get the baby back but my friend doesnt want to. when i finally convince her to come with me to get the baby we find the baby sleeping in a small bed in a portable where the guy and a lady lives. the baby wakes up and is happy to see us and the guy and the lady tell us that they were taking care of him till they could find the parents (they were good people). then we thank the guy and lady and the dream ends.

Random Michael Jackson questions...? I'm bored so i just decided to make a short MJ survey. 1st: What are you top 3 favorite songs from each MJ album? 2nd: What are you 3 favorite MJ albums and why? 3rd: What are your top 3 favorite music videos by him? IMO 1st: Off the Wall - Get on the Floor, Off the Wall, She's Out of My Life Thriller - Lady in My Life, Baby Be Mine, Human Nature Bad - Liberian Girl, Just Good Friends, Man in the Mirror Dangerous - Will You Be There, Give Into Me, Keep the Faith HIStory - Stranger in Moscow, They Don't Care About Us, Little Susie Invincible - Speechless, Don't Walk Away, You Are My Life 2nd: Dangerous. Bad. & HIStory Dangerous & Bad because they both have a lot of variety on them. They have love songs, songs that bring up issues, sad songs, etc. on them so each song puts you in a different mood. My other favorite HIStory is one of my favorites simply because it's more of a personal album. While it has You Are Not Alone most of the songs on there speak about issues going on with the world and also songs that show Michael's personal feelings about everything (Childhood, Stranger in Moscow etc.). After these 3 the rest of his cd's in order would be: Dangerous, Bad, HIStory, Invincible, Off the Wall, Thriller, Blood on the Dance Floor. 3rd: Smooth Criminal. Ghosts. Dirty Diana. Annie's Not Ok: I know but a majority of the album are remixes so I didn't include it lol. But on there I like BOTDF, Is It Scary, & Ghost.

Worried about life after baby? I am 5 months pregnant and have decided to attend Everest training institue for the remainder of my pregnancy and after birth BUT, I really wanted to hit the gym and get in shape because I was already very unhappy and overweight before I concieved. My question is.....how will I be able to take care of a newborn, attend collee 5 days a week AND find time to workout and eat right?!? Have any of you ladies been through a similiar situation and made it work? Thanks......

My son got a young lady pregnant. My grand baby is now 3, and due to her being abusive,? I have called DHS on her several times. She lives with the baby out of state, but will return home soon. Now, she will not allow me to speak with my grandchild, and my son will not talk to me at all. The baby loves me, and I her, but I don't know how to get in contact with my grandbaby. My question is this, what rights (visitation, or otherwise) do I have, since they were never married?I love my grandchild, and want to be a part of her life.

A lady and her baby.? A lady and her baby get on a bus. The bus driver looks at the lady, and then her baby, and then screams, “AHHHH! That’s the ugliest child I’ve ever seen in my life!” The lady then, totally disgusted, marches up to the back of the bus to sit down. As she was sitting there absolutely furious, a man asks, “Are you ok, dear?” The lady replies, “I’m so angry, that bus driver just insulted me.” The man says, “You go back up there and give that bus driver a piece of your mind, and I’ll watch your monkey.”

Did you know Group B Streptococcus is the commonest cause of life-threatening infections in newborn babies-UK? I found out about Strep B as another lady on Yahoo answers had to deliver her baby stillborn because it died of Strep B after her waters broke. I'm 35 weeks and 4 days today and got a negative Strep B result, I only posted my swabs Monday at 35 weeks and 1 day and recieved the news by text this morning. Please look in to Strep B further as your midwife will not mention it to you and get tested, £32 is all it costs and it could save your babies life. I was tested using the Enriched Culture Method (ECM) test. Please read the info below: Reliable testing for GBS carriage is not available on the NHS - the standard test which is sometimes offered on the NHS (often called an HVS) is not very reliable since up to 50% of women who are carrying GBS when the swabs are taken will falsely be given a negative result. However, a positive result from a HVS test is highly reliable. The Enriched Culture Method (ECM) test, recognised as optimal for detecting GBS carriage by both the Royal College of Obstetricians & Gynaecologists and by the Health Protection Agency, it is not available routinely or on the NHS. However, it is available privately, and costs £32.00 (although some health professionals may also charge you for specimen collection). This test is much more sensitive and has been specifically designed for the isolation of GBS. The ECM test should be performed at 35-37 weeks' gestation to best predict colonisation with GBS at delivery since GBS carriage can be intermittent. Research shows that, if the ECM test is performed within 5 weeks of delivery, a negative result is 96% predictive of not carrying GBS at delivery (so 4% of women acquired carriage between the test and giving birth) and a positive result is 87% predictive of carrying GBS at delivery (so 13% of women lost carriage between performing the test and giving birth). Any test result positive for GBS during pregnancy means that the pregnant woman should be offered intravenous antibiotics from the onset of labour or waters breaking and then 4-hourly until delivery. A negative ECM test result means that the pregnant woman does not need to be offered intravenous antibiotics from the onset of labour or waters breaking against GBS infection in her baby. Where no ECM test result is available OR the less reliable NHS test has come back negative, then the pregnant woman should be offered intravenous antibiotics during labour against GBS infection in her baby if one or more risk factors is present. However, in rare cases GBS can cause serious illness and even death in newborn babies. GBS is the most common cause of severe infection in newborns, particularly in the first week after birth (known as an early onset infection) . I asked my Midwife about Strep B and if I should get the test done at 35 weeks and she recommended I did. Every woman should be checked for it. Cot death is rare but every mother will try to prevent it, I think Strep B should also be prevented at every opportunity.

Baby showers and baby clothes? I am going to a baby shower next month. I dont really know the lady i have talked with her a couple times but her husband and my fiance were in iraq together and became best friends. She invited us down so i could go to her shower and the boys would go hang out. I love baby shopping but i get carried away. I dont want her to think im stupid so im going to ask your guys opinion. I have been buying clothes for every stage of this babies life. From newborn to 18 months. Do you think thats acceptable to buy clothes other then newborn size? Or is she going to be upset and wonder why i would do that. She told me she wasnt registered anywhere and i asked her if there were certain things she didnt want and she just said she was doing the babies room in tinkerbell if that helped so thats what i have been shopping by and the fact that she is going to be a little girl and a summer baby.

Is it my responsibility to make my baby's father be apart of our baby's life? Hi ladies, sorry if this is is long, but i would really appreciate come advice and opinions on what you would do if you were in this situation. Me and my ex were only together for a month before we moved in together and 2 months later i found out i was pregnant. At first we were shocked, but after the initial shock wore off we were excited. Then all of a sudden his true colours started to show, he was angry and resentful and started to show aggression towards me, i also found out from his ex wife that she has an AVO out against him for aggravated assault, of course he blamed her saying she pushed him tto break her arm and what's worse is that she was holding their 4 year old daughter when this happened. I believed his pathetic excuse until he went to his 10 year high school reunion which i was 13 weeks pregnant at the time and due to my lack of sex drive he slept with another woman, he told me as soon as he got home and i packed up my things and left. He rang me constantly with threats of taking me to court for half custody of our baby if i didn't come back so i stopped answering my phone. We started communicating through emails, that way he wouldn't have the chance to scream at me. We agreed that it would be best if we stayed apart until the baby was born and then sought things out then. Well 2 days ago i received an email from him saying that he wants nothing to do with me or the baby, he doesn't want his name on the birth certificate without a paternity test and even then he said he will just be a name on a document, not a real father. He said if he had his way the baby would be put up for adoption to a loving couple. This made me so unbelievably mad, how could he say this about our baby? I do admit i was relieved that i wouldn't have to deal with him because he is definitley not the man i fell for in the beginning, but what really upsets me is that my baby won't grow up with a father, what am i supposed to tell him when he asks me where his daddy is? Is it my responsibility to keep this man in our child's life or should i just leave it at that and consider it a ''sperm donation'' as he put it. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Tax Question: My tax lady did my taxes but put me as SINGLE instead of HEAD OF HOUSEHOLD.? TAX QUESTION: My tax lady in Florida, just did my taxes, but she put me as SINGLE instead of HEAD OF HOUSEHOLD. I had a rough year last year and only made $9,500, but never took any govt support, never took unemployment, etc. My baby lives with me (1 year old boy), and I pay all the bills (my grandfather has lent me money to help out. When I told my tax lady about this she claimed that putting HEAD OF HOUSEHOLD would not benefit me because I didn't make much money. Is this true? I always thought, No matter how much you made, head of household gets you a higher tax return? If my tax lady is right, then I apologize; but if she is wrong there is money due me, that I could use. PLEASE ADVISE

mj fans < this or that >? 1. man in the mirror or earth song 2. the lady in my life or baby be mine 3. heal the world or we are the world 4. his legs or his arms 5, his eyes or his lips 6. thriller dance or moonwalke 7. prince or pairs 8. give in to me or dirty Diana star if you miss mj <or if u like this

MJ this or that! (I'm bored)? Who Is It or Give In To Me? * You Are Not Alone or Stranger in Moscow? * Another Part of Me or Dirty Diana? * Billie Jean or Beat It? * Cinderella Stay Awhile or One Day In Your Life? * 2 Bad or This Time Around? * Lady in my Life or Baby Be Mine? * Get on the Floor or Burn This Disco Out? * You Rock My World or Invincible? * Blood on the Dancefloor or Privacy? <3

MJ FAM| Where can i Find? Where can i find MJ's Blood on the Dance Floor album besides ebay & Amazon Target doesn't have it Bonus Question : Leave Me Alone or Stranger in the Moscow BQ2: The Lady in My Life or Baby be Mine BQ3: Bad tour or Victory tour Please☆ @ snuggle- MJ's personal assistant i have bunch of MJ shirts PS: love you name/ Avatar

MJ fans: this or that? 1. ABC or I Want You Back 2. I'll Be There or Who's Lovin' You 3. State Of Shock or Can You Feel It 4. All I Do Is Think Of You or Farewell My Summer Love 5. Lady In My Life or Baby Be Mine 6. Speed Demon or Leave Me Alone 7. Jam or Dangerous 8. Heal The World or Earth Song 9. Man In The Mirror or Billie Jean 10. Heaven Can Wait or You Are My Life 12. This Time Around or Morphine 13. The Lost Children or 2000 Watts 14. We Are The World or What More Can I Give

Question for the ladies.... (pro-choice ladies that is)? If you found yourself with an unwanted pregnancy how much of a say do you think that the guy should have in determining whether you keep it or not...? I ask this cos my girlfriend fell accidentally when I was 15 to a baby that neither of us wanted. Not long after it was born she found it all to much and literally left me holding the baby, while she left and partied her teenage years away. I am fully aware that usually the situation is the other way around, but the point here is when a woman is pregnant it is always her call , but when the little one is born things are much different... Also, hypothetically, what if the man wants to keep the baby but you ladies do not. Would the fact that the baby is half him have any bearing on your decision? Would the fact that as men are unable to bear children and you may be denying him his only chance to be a father make any difference at all? Do you really think that the 'her body, her choice' really is the be all and end all, even if that decision is in fact a selfish one? Please stick to the question. If you're just writing to say 'keep it in your pants or be prepared for the consequences', or you're about to go off on some pro-life baby murderer rant, then I've already heard it, save it for someone who cares (Donna's question got me thinking) http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081221140836AAG8t2U&cp=1&tp=1&r=w&pa=EJFyD3bpBV_MdvjDf6rs4yNhUTNFTlvlpdxPUSYIYlNLXPzM2JlG2qYYLA--&paid=deleted_answer#answers

Born Agains, if you went and butchered a baby, why kind of punishment would you deserve? This evil woman went and brutally butchered a beautiful, pregnant young lady and her unborn baby boy. The young lady begged for her life and the life of her unborn baby, but the evil woman butchered her and her child anyhow. This evil woman never said "I'M SORRY" for killing the baby. She said she was a "changed woman" because she was a "born again" christian. She begged to get out of prison even though the family of the butchered child and mother are still SUFFERING.. So Born Agains, do you think that getting "SAVED" means that a KILLER should get a FREE TICKET out of prison? What kind of punishment do you think a BABY BUTCHER deserves??? Personally, if I went and butchered a baby and its mommy, I would want to be put to death for it, even if I did become a born again christian and get saved and changed and all that.. If I killed a little baby, even if I got saved by Jesus, I would want to be in prison for the rest of my life because that's what I DESERVE I would want to be PUNISHED on earth to the MAX for my CRIME..even if God had a place in paradise for me And personally, I think parole would denote that I had not paid the price to society for my atrocities... "Anyone who does not do what is right is not a child of God;" Well..IMO ...a BABY BUTCHER should be in prison for LIFE...no savior should get them OFF THE HOOK FOR IT

MJ Fam: This Or That? 1. Superfly Sister or Blood On The Dance Floor 2. Break Of Dawn Or Heaven Can Wait 3. D.S. Or This Time Around 4. Ghosts Or Is It Scary 5. Just Good Friends Or Liberian Girl 6. Lady In My Life Or Baby Be Mine 7. I Cant Help It Or Girlfriend 8. http://thejournalista.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/mj.jpg OR http://images.art.com/images/-/Michael-Jackson--C10101913.jpeg 9. Gold Pants Or Come Together Pants 10.Ghosts Video Or Thriller Video

What would you do? Child support and 2 daddies in the babies life.? Ok well I just got the DNA test results back the Friday before last and on Thursday he had an appt to go settle on an amount for child support. Well the lady called me because, he was down there and wanted to know if we could come up on an agreement on our own. Since he couldn't afford $630 a month and wanted to give me like $300. So, I was like i'll think about it but I want to talk to him face to face. Since he's avoided me the whole time. Which he denies doing so. I guess I do feel sorry for him for some strange reason. So, what should I do... I mean I didn't file for the money. It was a completely different reason and now I know for sure plus we get to keep our insurance. My husband has been there for her since way before she was born and that's who she knows as daddy. But, since he's coming around what should we tell her to call him. I know she's only 5 months but, I want it to be something consistant. I guess she could have 2 daddies. IDK :-[ Thanks. So, should she know them both as daddy? & should I agree on the $300/month? Well my husband has been daddy since before her biological dad has been in the picture. So, of course he's the only one she's known. She has our last name as well.

What was that crazy pro-natural birth lady on the news ON? Just saw a pregnancy / birth question that reminded me of something i wanted to ask following a news story on the way into work yesterday (it was a very good day for very bad science) Apparently "60 to 70 percent of mothers do not have complications during labour" - therefore they should deliver at home and not burden midwives and the maternity wards!? Do the maths. That means 30 to 40% of mothers DO suffer some kind of complication. Approx one in three, to two in every five. Do you really want to take that kind of chance with your own and your baby's life? Should I ever be a father, I would have to be presented with some VERY convincing arguments for my beloved not to be admitted to the women's hospital when the due date approached. Some of the complications can be life threatening. I work in a medical imaging department where we REGULARLY deal with expectant mothers suffering e.g. blood clots in the lungs. Why does this faceless soundbiter want to endanger so many people's lives?

Anti-abortion proponents, can you help me answer this question about abortions ? My religious views cause me to believe that NO abortion is appropriate, I know so many of you that read this may not agree, but I am looking for help from those who do agree with my views. One lady on facebook said an abortion is OK if the mother might die, because it is better to lose one life( the baby) than to lose 2 lives. My opinion and strong belief is that it is all in God's hands and no abortion is correct. God will make all the decisions. How do I counter what she has said ?

Do you ever wonder where you'd be today, if you didn't have a baby? You know when you're newly pregnant, and you have that anxiety because life as you've always known it is never going to be the same? And then your little one arrives, and that bond develops, and you realize that having a baby was the most wonderful thing that ever happened to you. Eventually you're not able to imagine life without baby... I know that for many of us, baby changed everything. In some cases, having a baby motivates us to pursue goals we have been putting off, in order to better provide for our families. In other instances, our goals are put on the back burner for a bit, so that we can spend as much time as possible with our little ones. But, do you ever sit back and wonder what you'd be doing right now, if you never had kids? I don't mean this in a resentful, "baby ruined everything" way. I know that for me, if I hadn't had children, I would probably be dead as a direct result of my addiction. My kids don't keep me clean (God does), but they sure do help. When I got pregnant with my second, I was a sophomore in college, but I had to put my academic interests on hold. I don't mind a bit, but I do sometimes reflect on this "where would I be...". It helps motivate me to get on top of my game, so that I can get there when my baby is older. Penny for your thoughts, ladies...

Can Anyone Help Me (Give Me Some Tips) For My Speech That I Have To Present Tomorrow? This Is My Speech For A Pro-Life Competition, Any Critiqueing, Comments, Or Tips For When I Present Would Be Great! ................................................... "Armani was born July 14, 2004. His mother happened to be at the drop-in homeless shelter on December 12, 2003, when Katrina and Josephine were dropping off gloves and food. Katrina was wearing a "Pro-Life Wisconin" button and a staff person said, "Pro-life? There's a woman here who wants an abortion. Would you want to talk to her?" Armani was born into a family of two loving brothers and two loving sisters. Katrina has attributed his life to Our Lady of Guadalupe, Patroness of the Unborn, for it was on her feast day that his mother accepted our offer of help. Praise be to God!" Jean Bruenig, August 13, 2008 Today, worldwide, 1,500 Unborn Children will be killed. This year? 42,000,000. That's 42,000,000 Children that could grow up to be wonderful people and make a difference in the world! And what is the reason that these innocent human beings are killed? Though many try to use rape as a reason to support pro-choice only 1% is because of rape! 24% is because of financial reasons, and 75% of abortions are caused because of social reasons (the child is inconvenient or unwanted) Which is better to remember, "I gave my baby life, and because I loved him/her, I gave him/her into the arms of a loving couple" Or to remember, "I ended My child's life"? Did you know that 8 out of 10 women regret having an abortion?! Most said that they were pained physically and emotionally, scared, and almost all of them admitted that they were Very depressed after their first abortion! Shockingly 52% of the women having abortions are under the age of 25, and 4 out of 10 women will have 1+ abortion(s) before they turn 45. And on average, an in-clinic abortion can cost between $350-$900. Now for years people have said that abortion is safer than childbirth, in the mothers stand point, but a recent study shows this to be an untrue statement, mostly because they never took into consideration the suicide rate. Research shows that women who have an abortion are twice as likely to die in the 2 years following their abortion, due to further complications, such as the mother gets pregnant again and the recent abortion was done incorrectly, or due to suicide. Now if in fact you do happen to conceive, there are Many other options rather than abortion, instead of abortion or infanticide you can give birth, take your baby to a police station, fire department, or a nearby hospital and you can leave it in the care of an employee, no questions asked, and they will gladly find your child a suitable home; and with 3.5 million couples wanting to adopt 1+ children, there is no such thing as an Unwanted child. Abortion is a very important topic for me, because I had a 50% chance of survival. Unmarried, 4 children, expecting one more, and at 18 years of age my mother considered taking my life, taking the life of her child, one person that could grow up and change the world making it a better place, and I'm Very glad that she didn't! My mother took into consideration Abortion Vs. Adoption, and I believe she made the right choice! My name is Claire Kozentis, I am 15 years old, placed in Advanced classes, I play volleyball, basketball, cross country, and track, and a straight A student, and I love my adoptive family that I was put into! I have a wonderful older sister, a beautiful dog, and my mom and dad and I love them very much! I plan to graduate High School, attend DePaul University, and then follow in my sister's footsteps, become a teacher and work with special needs children. Unborn children cannot speak up for themselves, and so I plan to continue speaking up For them. ................................................. Please Help! Thanks!!

what can i do if my husband have his ex baby mamas turn our life to hell with their kids? my husband has 4 kids with 2 women they are the most dramatic people in the world and i am in the middle of it, i love but there is a lot of regrets what can i do, he smoked weed all day, he is not taking care of the kids cause he can't find a job, them ladies expect me to send my paycheck to them but i have all the bills to pay and my own kids to take care, help me please Thanks to everyone, your answers are so helpful, please receive my gratitude. god bless you

What was your sex life like after having a baby? My wife basically said yesterday that we will be too busy to have sex, when I brought up my birthday, which is a month and a half after she is due. I understand that it takes some time for her lady-parts to be ready for action, but to say that we will be too busy caring for the baby to basically ever have sex is kind of extreme, right? I'm just worried that my problem of being not sexually fulfilled will get worse after having the baby. I can't really controll it the conventional way(you know what I'm referring to). I get all self conscious, depressed and anxious when I'm not getting-some somewhat regularly, and we havnt been having regular sex in years. When I try to put some moves on she shoots me down and I feel like an *ss for even trying. But on the other side of that coin, a couple that never has sex can't be as close, and I'm sure it causes other problems too in the relationship. I just feel like she might be using this as an out, because she completely lost interest in sex a few years ago. She is the type of woman who refuses to schedule sex (even though experts reccomend it) and never makes the first move (even though I could never know when she may be up for it). I can't get it off my mind, and sex never even crosses her mind. I think she feels like its a burden rather than something joyous that can be fun and bring partners closer together, and I don't want to be a burden. I wont consider leaving, I love her too much, plus we'll have the baby whom I'm sure Ill love as much or more. I already do more than my fair share of the housework? I'm apparently (un)screwed

What is best? Commit to baby mother or lady I'm in love with? I've been seeing my baby mother (girl A) on and off for about 4 years now. I've been seeing an older lady (girl B) for about 3 years. Girl A has a communication problem. We don't have anything in common and like many relationships, it started off as just sex. Girl B was the same, it was just sex in the beginning. With time, we grew emotionally attached and now are in love. She's older and a lot more stable, patient and mature. We get along "almost" perfectly. Girl A has hidden feelings that after 3 years, i'm finnaly finding out about. Not only that, she's pregnant now, "with twins". Aint that some shit? I'm unsure on what I should do. I knew what I was going to do when she mentioned she was pregnant, be with girl B. Now that we found out we're having twins, "TWO BABIES", my decision has become very hazy. I love both women, but i'm IN LOVE with girl B. When we're together, life is simple. When I'm with girl A, life is like a 5000 piece puzzle. Someone help me out here!!

baby items that made your life & ur lil's life easier?/? so im 13 days away from my due date :D & i have pretty much everything.. but tomorrow im going shoping for the last baby items.. i was wondering ladies if you had any suggestions on any particular baby item you loved or your baby loved.. other than the essentials things of course like clothes car seat cribs and stuff like that for example my mom bought me a wipey warmer & i thought even though its not an item i need it will come in handy.. im expecting a boy & i been told that boys tend to pee when their diaper is being changed if they get cold so warm wipeys will be a plus.. the wipey warmer is not suppose to dry out the wipeys the one i got is a new one that prevents the wipeys from going dry..

Do you personally think Abortion is wrong or immoral....? I do very much and why...My personal experience why.... I had a legal abortion, without going into details it was a decision I thought was best at the time by my Doctor and for personal reasons. I was 20 at the time over 28 yrs ago. Not knowing anything that was going to happen I went to a local hospital and was in a waiting room with over 75 girls that looked my age and younger, I sat there with a feeling of extreme sadness, guilt and pain listening to others girls that looked in there mid-teens saying to each other *What do you think it's going to be like,? laughing and carrying on, some just sat there still but they looked to be older. When they called my name I went into a room with a Dr. and Nurse my heart pounding and the Dr saying relax it will be over in a minute with such coldness, I said..*wait a minute, let me ask you some questions, as I saw the Medical Machine near the guerrney I was on..I said what are you going to do? (I was 12 weeks pregnant) I was asking the Dr is the baby going to feel any pain? I was moving around starting to cry, they saw I was getting a bit out of control and at that point I was sedated put under..I woke up feeling dizzy crammpy in what looked like a Army bunk for girls (The recovery area) a lady was handing out OJ and Cookies and telling some of the girls to get up they can go now...Still feeling woozy I got up walked out sat in my car for hours crying until I could drive myself home. I have prayed many times and ask GOD to forgive me and my baby too who I know one day I will see again. If I had a few more minutes in that OR room I would of got up and ran out most of these girls today having abortions are young, do not know what they are doing many end up with severe depression, guilt a heavy heart and it takes years to forgive yourself if ever.... This was very hard and personal to write, but if people realize what is growing inside your body is a real life baby depending on you for it's love it's nuture and it's life...If you don't want it or think you cannot have it for your own reasons why not give it up for Adoption? Thanks for the replies..I have a Son he is grown and I always will remember the other child that I have in heaven... Choose life ! Best of luck with all your pregnancies God Bless...

How Familiar Are You With Classic Rock? For each set of lyrics below, write the name of the song and the band it is by. There will be three categories, with ten sets of lyrics in each category. The first category contains lyrics to very recognizable classic rock songs that almost everyone knows. The second is a bit more challenging, and you have to know a somethin' about classic rock to figure them out. The third contains lyrics that only true classic rockers will know! The most correct answers wins best. Good luck! Category 1: 1. Let me take you down, cause I'm going to strawberry fields. 2. Actin' funny I don't know why. 'Scuse me while I kiss the sky. 3. Has he lost his mind? Can he see or is he blind? 4.There's a lady who's sure all that glitters is gold, and she's buying the stairway to heaven. 5. I got nine lives. Cat Size. Abusin' every one of them and running wild. 6. Seasons don't fear the reaper, nor do the wind the sun or the rain. 7. We don't need no thought control. No dark sarcasm in the classroom. 8. We are the champions my friends, and we'll keep on fighting till the end. 9. Layla, you've got me on my knees. 10. 'Cause I try and I try and I try and I try. I can't get no. Category 2: 1. Don't cry. Don't raise your eye. It's only teenage wasteland. 2. The time to hesitate is through, no time to wallow in the mire. 3. Wrapping paper in the gutter, moving slowly as the wind on the sea. 4. The ice age is coming. The sun is zooming in. 5. Is this the real life? Is this just fantasy? 6. Put in a prison cell, but one time he coulda been the champion of the world. 7. Jack, he is a banker, and Jane, she is a clerk. 8. You were made to go out and get her the minute you let her under your skin. 9. I can't control my fingers, I can't control my brain. 10. So this ain't the end. I saw you again today. Category 3: 1. Mirror shatters in formless reflections of matter. 2. Don't you know you're driving your Mamas and Papas insane? 3. Creamy suntan color that fades when she bathes. 4. You gotta hold him like it's the last minute in your life, baby. 5. Why did you throw the Jack of Hearts away? 6. And where will she go and what shall she do, when midnight comes around? 7. All my dreams, pass before my eyes, a curiosity. 8. It's a mixed up muddled up shook up world except for Lola. 9. When I look up to the sky, I see your eyes, a funny kind of yellow. 10. Blood screams the pain as they chop off her fingers. Christen C- Thank you for not cheating ;) And maybe I made that last category a bit too hard...

Does this weird @ss dream of mine have a meaning? I had a dream that we had a bunch of pets in the house. They're were birds, my real life baby guinea pigs, my dead guinea pig Lumpy who was alive in the dream , my dead yorky Lady who was alive in the dream, rabbits, cats, chickens. I remember driving up to Hickies(resturaunt) and they're was a dyeing tiger and my dad was like really upset so we decided to take it home and take care of it. When i came home I opened up a door and it was a big room and it had children singing and they had Hydrocephalus. I went to our bathroom and Lumpy was they're just running around, I couldn't catch him and they're was this demonic voice saying "I WILL KILL YOU!!!" And i got so scared that I ran out of the room. I was too much of a coward to save Lumpy. Mom and Dad was out on the porch, I told them and they just thought I was being weird like usual. like through out the dream when i was taking care of those animals that I knew somthing disturbing was going to happen.

i been lookong for this song name "for you'' i want to know who sings it... plez help? it goes something like this.... special lady, girl u kno jst what u are i could neva stay to far away from u.angel all the love and joy u bring i would do most anything for u. i would take a chance and make a stand for u, i would even lie even die for u, even tho im koo ill act a fool for u. i keep wondering if i could keep ya satdisfied i could be the one that runs ya life, baby ill give ya love and happyness, ur the girl i love the best. i think u treat me so right and i want to do the same thang for u i feel so oh good in side and i hope u feel the same way too. ........ the song i heared it on my frnds page n i been looking for it but havent find the singer who sings this... so please help!

Is it ok for us to pay hospital expenses for Illegals who can't speak English? My friend is a Nurse for babies who are premature and have a good chance of dieing. A Mexican lady had a baby at the hospital and the baby was under the care for awhile and needed to be sent to another hospital that would be able to take things to the next level, but the lady had no ID so couldn't fly with the baby. My friend the nurse had to get a one way bus ticket, a prepaid cell phone so they could call the mom once the plane landed. Again the lady has no insurance, shouldn't have been here in the first place and will never be able to pay or be tracked for this as she doesn't have a social security number. Now I agree the babies life is very important, I agree that any life is important, but would Mexico do this for us. When you watch shows about Mexico they look happy. It seems like we get most of the poorist Mexicans in this country which is why the President of Mexico doesn't care that everyone want's to leave. Think about it if you were a manager of a job wouldn't that suck as people are leaving your work area, your decissions or direction choices. he doesn't care as we are picking up his poor and they send money back to their relatives putting money into the Mexican economy The flight and care will go over $25,000 - $45,000. They have to have special equipment and several very qualified nurses here, on the plane and when they get to the new hospitial. Yes state funds from legal tax payers will pay this bill as it is a non-profit place and yes even if tax payers don't directly pay they pay later as losses make prices to the rest of us go up. no we shouldn't pay for any illegals whether they speak English or not

a woman and her baby..? A lady and her baby get on a bus. The bus driver looks at the lady, and then her baby, and then screams, "AHHHH! That's the ugliest child I've ever seen in my life!" The lady then, totally disgusted, marches up to the back of the bus to sit down. As she was sitting there absolutely furious, a man asks, "Are you ok, dear?" The lady replies, "I'm so angry, that bus driver just insulted me." The man says, "You go back up there and give that bus driver a piece of your mind, and I'll watch your monkey."

would my girlfriend enjoy this? I decided to write something for my girl i do sweet things for her once in a blue but i want to write something that would make her day what you ladies think of this When I met you I wasn't planning on falling in love. I wasnt planning on feeling so attracted to someone but you awkakened feelings inside of me that i'd forgotton existed...I'm used to the player life playing my game and not putting emotions into a female..all that changed since i met you...When i met you i didnt realize how much our love would grow...that attraction that first brought us together would reach beyond passion to the comfort of knowing I have someone very special, someone who is not only my lover but my close friend, I ask you to dont mis used and abuse my heart...My feelings for you is true and I know in the beginning i was afraid to commit to you...When i met you i had no idea where our relationship would lead us, how beautiful you would make my world. but now I know without a doubt....the luckiest day of my life was the day I met you. I'm glad your back in my life....Baby your beautiful and ive been looking for a chick dats down for me and I found her ;) - Jonathan

A love letter i wrote for my girlfirend? I decided to write something for my girl i do sweet things for her once in a blue but i want to write something that would make her day what you ladies think of this When I met you I wasn't planning on falling in love. I wasnt planning on feeling so attracted to someone but you awkakened feelings inside of me that i'd forgotton existed...I'm used to the player life playing my game and not putting emotions into a female..all that changed since i met you...When i met you i didnt realize how much our love would grow...that attraction that first brought us together would reach beyond passion to the comfort of knowing I have someone very special, someone who is not only my lover but my close friend, I ask you to dont mis used and abuse my heart...My feelings for you is true and I know in the beginning i was afraid to commit to you...When i met you i had no idea where our relationship would lead us, how beautiful you would make my world. but now I know without a doubt....the luckiest day of my life was the day I met you. I'm glad your back in my life....Baby your beautiful and ive been looking for a chick dats down for me and I found her ;) - Jonathan

Does it seem like formula fed babies learn faster in their first year of life than breastfed babies? Watching a lot of friends babies and ladies that I know online that all have babies the same age as my son...it seems as though the formula fed babies learn to crawl, walk and even get teeth sooner. Not all of them of course I like this since all babies develop differently but it just seems as though the breastfed babies are a little slower to learn some things. I am not trying to start trouble, I am honestly curious. My son is was breastfed for 6 months. I have seen differences in friends and family, some people I have talked to have shared this 'theory' if you want to call it that, and others haven't. I'm not saying one is better than the other, I'm just asking if anyone has observed this. I totally agree that babies that go to daycare learn things because they are challenged. My nephew goes to daycare and he seems to have learned a lot since he started there. I'm a stay at home mom so its just him and I playing together, although he has started going to daycare at the gym I workout at and we have regular playdates. I have always thought that all the good came from breastfeeding (we planned to BF for a year at least) but this just stood out in my head so I wanted to see what others thought. I am in NO WAY saying that people shouldn't breastfeed because their child will develop faster! Breastfeeding is ALWAYS best for baby.

Worse situation of my life. Ladies, please help! And please, don't judge. Pregnancy. Thank you very much!! I attended a party a while back, had way too much to drink and ended up sleeping with my best guy friend. I recently learned from a visit to the doctor that I am pregnant. He's the only guy I've ever slept with and we both know that the baby is his. He said that whatever I decide to do with the baby he'll support me. If I have it-he'll be there for it and me, if I give it up for adoption-he'll support that, or if I abort it-he'll support me. At first, I hated him for what happened, but it took two of us that night, so I realize that I am also to blame. My question is, what would everyone else do if their best guy friend got them pregnant-keep the baby, abort it, or give it up for adoption? Would you have been really mad at him? Please don't post comments like "you shouldn't have been so irresponsible," because I already know that and have beaten myself up about it already. I can't change my past. That was the one night in my life I've ever done that, and it WILL also be the last. I am not a 16 year old girl either, so don't worry about me being underage. I'm 22, and will be fully able to take care of the baby if I do happen to have it.

Lady made my baby fat?!? A couple of weeks ago, I needed to go on a business trip that would last a week and a half, but I needed someone to look after my baby girl, Coraline (got the name from Neil Gaiman's great novella). I'm divorced and my husband lives God-knows-where; my parents are dead and I don't have any siblings. However, one of my friends, who is also my colleagues has an on the doll sister who she said would be more than happy to take care of my Coraline. I met her sister many times before; I can't say I honestly like that tall, tanned, heavy chested bleach-blonde...well, you get the idea. But I didn't really have any alternative so I went to her sister's and dropped my baby off into her care. I distinctly remember her saying how "light" Coraline was when she held her. So, a week and a half later, I returned home and went over to pick Coraline up. But when I did, I found her in the highchair, dressed only in her diaper and shoveling baby food into her mouth. THAT didn't shock me; it was that...she was FAT. Seriously, when I dropped her off, she looked much different in weight. But now she's much fatter and bulgier, especially around her cheeks, butt and gut. I didn't say anything at first; I just thanked the lady and took my daughter home, where I really vented my shock. Coraline looked like she'd gained several pounds. She can hardly fit into any of her clothes and so has to spend most of her time dressed in only diapers. I am not overreacting here; my daughter has BLIMPED and I know that lady is to blame. I mean, what do you think? Should I talk to her about it or what? I've got half a mind to have her charged by the police.

Do you ever see a pregnant woman and feel bad for the baby she is carrying? I just found out my neighbor is pregnant. She's in her mid 30's, doesn't have a job, and just sits at home all day because she doesn't have a car and can't go anywhere. She also has no a/c because their power has been cut off. Keep in mind we live in Northwest Florida and it's steamin hot here! She's a nice lady but just really trashy and lives completely off the government. But, she's never given me any problems, so I always smile and wave at her and that's been the extent of our interactions thus far. Yesterday she stopped me as I was getting into my car and asked if I had any baby clothes that I was getting rid of (I just had a baby 7 weeks ago) So, she tells me she's 3 months pregnant and just found out........how you go 3 months without knowing I don't understand, but anyway....I feel so bad for this baby and the life it's going to have. Mostly because I look at my son and know that he and her baby will be close in age, but will have such different lives. I am finishing up nursing school and my husband's a biomedical engineer. My heart aches for this poor baby. Mostly because when I said congrats and asked if she was excited, she was like "No, I don't want another kid." I didn't even know she had a kid, so that tells me all I need to know about her parenting skills. Also, when I got home last night she was sitting on the front porch smoking which is pretty much all she does all day long. Maybe I'm just hormonal, but I keep picturing that tiny fetus squirming around and struggling for some decent oxygen! So, do you ever see a pregnant lady and think "I feel so bad for that child that she's carrying?" BTW: I did take some clothes over there that my son has outgrown and a large pack of opened diapers. They were newborn size and he fit in those for about 3 days! lol So, there were only about 10 missing. I have a big boy! Madi's Mommy....I doubt that was her situation either! She probably just kept wondering where her period was? Her other child is 7 years old and lives with his dad......all she told me was she doesn't get visitation. I didn't feel like it was any of my business to ask why. I also asked the hubby if we could have her baby if she wanted to give it up? Wow......if looks could kill........ brax owl....I asked MY husband not hers. She's not even married!!!!! Jeeze I would never out right ask someone for their child!

Is it safe to pay for a craigslist item using paypal? I am interested in buying a baby carrier but the lady lives an hour or so away, she offered to ship and take payment via paypal. I looked her name up and found no criminal record and in fact found her facebook page with a picture of her and her son so I do believe the item is legit. I have corresponded through emails with her and I do think I trust her but I am a little leary about giving my paypal info, is it safe? I have only used paypal for ebay, how do you use it for things like this, how does the payment go through?

A good friend of mines daughter wants to have a baby and shes only 15 PLEASE HELP!? I stayd the night at my bosses house the other day and her daughter liked me allot as a good friend so she has been coming over and i take her shopping and we talk about boyfriends and girly things but i didn't think it would ever get this fair. She just told me when we wer at the mall that she wanted to have a baby. I said "WHAT!?"She stoped me right there and said that she knows what i was going to say and that she knows shes too Young to take care of a baby but that she had a job at worlds of fun and she can handle a baby. I didn't talk to her that whole day i just took her right back home and she begged me not to tell her mom but i honestly think i need to tell her mom because this little kid JUST turned 15 not even a full month ago and she told me she had sex all ready with 3 guys TRYING TO HAV A BABY! she said she wanted a girl and i was in shock so i just didn't say anything i just noded my head in shame and took her back home and told her when she wants to hang out again we can only if she acts like a Young lady in respect of her age. I talked to her again on the phone about how her body is not even ready for a child and that if she was to try for a baby that it would not only risk her life but the baby's as well and that considering having a child at a Young age is heartless for a mom. I told her the costs of cribs, formula, diapers and LOTS LOTS LOOOOTS more i even told her its only a 50% chance she will have a girl and what she would do if she had a boy! I sat there and talked to her all night long and tried to make her change her mind but it just pissed her off and she told me she had to go because her boyfriend was calling -_- What should i do? What should i say as her friend and should i tell my boss ASAP? What would you do?

What is the explanation in Islam about stillbirth/losing a baby almost at term? What good can come out of it? I mean the lady shouldnt have got pregnant in the first place if thats what Allah had decided to do? Can I say it was the doctor's negligence or was it Allah's will? How do I explain to myself that Allah willed something so cruel to happen to me. I not only lost my baby at 36 wks but I also have a damaged uterus which will not allow me to get pregnant for 2-3 yrs and even after that I am very very high risk. I just fail to console myself with my religion. I will add that I do count my blessings. I have a wonderful husband,parents that are alive,supportive and in-laws that are not too bad. I have a handful of great friends I was almost going to lose my life when the baby was born and they say its a miracle how I got saved by the doctors..but I still lost my baby. I am beautiful inside and out, love to give to charity and I am glad to be born a Muslim. I have never had the responsibilty to work, always been taken care of by my parents and then my husband who pampers me a lot. I am saying all this because my husband keeps reminding me these things when I am incosolable for the loss of my son who I really really loved so much.

Why are people happy when an unmarried lady is having a baby? Situation: 18 year old waitress at the Big Boy restaurant is having a baby in Nov 09. Unmarried. No money. High school drop out. No car. ( In our area no bus service ) No support from father of baby. ( He has other children at age 19 but he has no job to help mothers) The father of the baby is a high school drop out too. The other workers are saying "Oh! It is so wonderful you are having a baby". Then all people hug the mother to be and smile as if they are happy. Then I replied "How are you going to go to college and learn a real trade to support the baby"? "How are you going to own and buy car"? How are you going to plan for a future? Her Reply? Welfare will give me $1,500 dollars per month and free medical care for the next 18 years so I don't have to work. All I have to do is have babies. My mother had 6 kids and never worked a day in her life and ( This is true what I'm saying) I turned out all right. If I have 4 kids I get $2,600 a month so I don't need to go to school. I get free money and health care. All for welfare to help get people up and running to make it on their own. She says she is a Democrat.

to all those ladies who recently miscarried...? i didn't want to let go, so i kept on holdin' on. and inside i know its over now, ur really gone its cuts so deep, it hurts down to my soul always feelin like i can't go on anymore everyday as time goes by i try so hard not to cry it's killin me cause there aint a thing that i can do no one really understands how much i miss u so never got a chance to hold u so tight nor see your smile so bright sure i know ur in a better place but i would give anything just to see ur face i know ur in heaven up high but i'll never say goodbye ur up there just like an angel so pure and only u for this pain could be my cure may u all rest in peace our little angels.. this poem goes out to all those who have recently had a lost like myself.. i wish u all the strength to get through this difficult time in our lives. baby dust to all! =]

monkey baby? A lady and her baby... A lady and her baby get on a bus. The bus driver looks at the lady, and then her baby, and then screams, "AHHHH! That's the ugliest child I've ever seen in my life!" The lady then, totally disgusted, marches up to the back of the bus to sit down. As she was sitting there absolutely furious, a man asks, "Are you ok, dear?" The lady replies, "I'm so angry, that bus driver just insulted me." The man says, "You go back up there and give that bus driver a piece of your mind, and I'll watch your monkey." I seriously didn't know it was on hollioaks I don't even watch it :)

lose of baby.... Please read.? This isnt a question I simply just wanted to share with you ladies what a lady from Fertilityties.com had shared with me since I had lost my baby at 4 1/2 weeks along.. Here is a quick little quote and I thought it was precious and wanted to share with you ladies: ""An angel in The Book of Life wrote down my baby's birth . . . then whispered as she closed it, "Too beautiful for earth" Also- www.fertilityties.com has been a wonderful site to all you ladies that are ttc its a site directly too ttc'ers and etc.. Check it out... Hope this help you girls! Thanks for taking the time to read this!!! Best of luck to all you ttc'ers *Laurie*

Riddle First one to answers correct gets 10 points!? A lady lives in a round house with her baby. She has a maid, a cook and butler. She left her baby in the house while she went to the store. when she came back the baby was gone. she asked the maid did you take my baby? "No i was vacuuming the floor. she asked the cook if he took her baby. "no i was cooking for the guest" She asked the butler if he took her baby. "no i was dusting the corners. who took the baby?

I need help....18 and craving a baby to the point of tears.? I am posting in regards to the fact that I am 18, in college, have the man of my dreams, and REALLY REALLY want a baby and so does he. I know we could take care of the baby and go to school and work but I'm not sure if that's the best option. I see freshman with babies and the expecting ladies around me and it almost brings me to tears and HAS brought me to tears at the thought of how that would complete me and how I long for it. I know I am destined to be a mommy...my sisters, mom and boyfriend say that...I feel as though I'm at the prime age and it's so hard not to, especially since I have a perfect gentleman who I KNOW I can trust. I've been in some pretty crappy relationships, therefore making it easier for me to tell these things. I've been around babies my whole life really(friends, family, and all) and I've just really always loved them. I know it is hard and not just fun all the time. I've witnessed that and yet still the urge seems to overpower me. I know it would make me incredibly happy. Just the thought of being called mommy warms my heart...lately all I've been doing is wandering around thinking about just this. Please...your input would be great..I've simply been going crazy...I beg you not to be harsh....:o) I even read parenting magazines just for fun....it's gotten to the point of being pathetic...I'm like a mommy without a baby. My boyfriend thinks it'd cute but funny...:o) No I'm actually a daddies girl....my dad and I have always been joined at the hip....he believes me to be a destined mommy too. My ex who I was with for 4 years used to beat me up and stuff and I finally ended up with somebody who knows how to treat a woman. He waited until he met the right girl to even have sex(which is something I, sadly, can't say I've done)...I have really never met anybody like him..he sacrifices everything for me...he even went to college to be with me(even though that's not a good reason) just because I was going away for school....even my brothers aren't this perfect with their girlfriends...lol...we've been together a long while now so it's also easier to tell. I've taken care of my sisters babies(even when newborn).............watching them just made it worse...:*o( Guess it's just not the same. Wow! Thanks everybody for your AWESOME comfort...It really helps....I just can't understand it...I just have SO much trouble controlling the urge...I know we would be able to take care of it until graduation but it would be nice to give the baby everything it needs AND wants from day 1. :o) P.S. I really want to get married and so does he....just hasn't happened yet.....my closest sister is moving SO far ahead of me and it hurts...we were both in crappy abusive relationships and then in good ones..Now she's getting married and just found out she's pregnant and it's just really hard....:o/ But thanks for the advice!

As a parent, how do you feel about the James Bulger case? I still get as upset about it as I did when I first heard about it. I was 9 years old when it happened, and I was completely and utterly devastated - it is simply unfathomable that something like that could happen. 17 years later, and I still feel the exact same. I think about James often. Now I am a parent, I think of his mother with a heavy heart, and what life has been like for her since her beautiful baby boys life was taken in the most horrific way possible. Obviously this case is in the news again lately, after one of the killers was *again* given a new identity upon release from prison, this time on child pornogrophy charges. James's mother was there in court wearing a badge that said "Justice for Jamie" - and my heart broke for this lady, still fighting for justice, that will be never be served, She surely is living every parents worst nightmare. It makes you appreciate and love your own kids like there is no tomorrow, doesn't it? . http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Bulger_murder_case if you don't know about the case - warning, if you get upset easily, you probably don't want to read this. Apparently this didn't really make the news in the USA? the killers were only 10 years old at the time they kidnapped James, and tortured and murdered him in cold, pre-meditated blood

How can I get people to stop judging me? I am nineteen years old, married, and 37 weeks pregnant with my first child. People say some of the rudest, most hurtful things to me. An older man asked me if my parents had disowned me yet, then said if I was his daughter he would have. A lady who lives next door to me "mumbled" (loud enough that i could hear, of course) that i ought to be ashamed of myself for not doing the kind thing for my baby and ending the pregnancy. Many other people sneer, say ugly things, and in general judge my worthiness as a parent. They don't even know me or my husband! why do people say such things? Will they ever stop? p.s. I have a full-time job, as does my husband, and we are doing well financially. Ive been working with children since I was old enough to volunteer at children's camps and daycares (13 in Arkansas. ) and i think i have as much, if not more, experience with kids than alot of older parents!

Okay i am a foster child and i need help my aunt physically and mentally abuses me what should i do? Okay well i been living with her for about 3 years now. But i also lived in many different foster homes so i know what it feels like to live in one. I've been wanted to move out of her house for some time now but my advocate really is not helping me with the issues i am having at home. my aunt constantly yells at me calling me stupid and lazy bitch (which is so not true i watch all of the kids in the house as well as feeding bathing and even helping me baby brother with his homework he's only 4 going on 5 on top of my homework) i am a high school student i will be a junior next school year i am 15 years old. so it's not like it isn't hard enough to go through school with my school drama and being the youngest one in my class year of 2012 but to be mentally abused the way i am really hurts me to the fullest. i've spoken to many councilor but sadly they cannot help me out with anything.I do not talk back to my aunt at all i let her yell at me and hit me and go on with my day saying i only have to more years of school and then im out of here. but today really set me off when she came into the pool and started to strangle me because all the kids where dumping people in the pool and one of the boys dumped me on top of that her girlfriends kids had hit her daughter and i was not able to see what had accrued at the time as her daughter went inside to tell her so. she yelled out ay bitch and came into the pool and started to slap me as well as strangle me now i used to have asthma so it was really hard for me to regain air. i looked at her very angry like as she said o so u think u can fight me now and rushed me again i did not raise a hand to her she told me get out the pool and i did many of the kids that were at the pool did witness this as i left the pool and went to the house she started to yell more she left and i went outside and tried to call me advocate twice no answer. so i decided to call my mother (who lives in new york) this is when my aunt burst open the door and as i was on the porch steps slapping me almost causing me to fall of the stairs. i then ran from the steps and walked away from her cause she was yelling and screaming at me as i seemed to cry into the phone talking to my mother. she then decided to tell me to go in the house and i told her no i do not want to if your go in to hit me like this ( this being the first time i ever talked back to her like that) she said then stay out and didn't you dare come back in this house i told her fine i didn't care she said good and i said great as i walked down the sidewalk saying damn (still in my bikini) she didn't even let me change so i told my mother i shall call her back as i called the cops. while i waited for the cops i called my mother back going to my Friends house across the street (we live in apartments) who was by the pool with me and witness everything along with her boyfriend. she then gave me a towel and tried to comfort me as i waited for the cops. The cops did not do anything to help me but tell me i need to go back inside and they shouldn't be here for this they should be out on the streets handling drug dealers. i was in disbelief as i told them this is not the first time she has done this and i did not want to stay here anymore cause she has punched me deliberately before. i had to go into the house again as my aunt told me to give her my phone (my lifeline) so i did and walked up the staircase wishing i would've choked her back if i knew this was going to happen. what am i to do I've been waiting for the weekend to be over so i can go to school and use a Friends phone so i can call my advocate and a lady that works with the court for my case since she is filling for custody of me. I DO NOT WANT TO STAY HERE ANYMORE AND IT SEEMS LIKE THE COPS COULD TAKE ME AWAY FROM MY MOTHER FOR MY AUNT STATING THAT MY mother ABUSES ME (which is not true) BUT WHEN I CALL THEM FOR A REAL ABUSIVE CASE NO ONE CARES!!! she has literally picked me up by my shirt before and thrown me into the closet. but yet she believes she is the most angelic thing in the world as the only person she cares about is her daughter but makes everyone believe she loves me because she buys me cloths (She did not even buy my cloths i had to buy them myself and a lady came to help me with money) everything is going crazy and im at the peek of insanity as of that night i took about 6 of my prescription pills that are 100mg each and went to sleep hoping to overdose or something but i am still her i believe if i stay here any long i would commit homicide or suicide but someway i feel like someone is going to die in this house before i turn 17 and graduate high school!!!

Ladies: Would you ever give up your baby to be adopted? I have a friend who got pregnant at the age of nineteen. The father of the baby would not admit that he is the father (she claimed that he is cause she wasn't with anyone at the time...and they were not dating.) Abortion was not an option for her so she decided to carry the baby to term. She wanted to give her baby a better life and place her up for adoption knowing that at the time she couldn't provide for her baby. She still has contact with the child through the adoptive parents. Her situation: -No guidance from her mother (mom left when she was a kid) -No guidance or support from her father cause he was an alcoholic -Had no money, broke and out of school. -The father of the baby admit it wasn't his and moved away. Ladies: would you ever give up your baby? If you were in her situation, would you have done the same? Im just trying to get some opinon and trying to understand it. Right now its hard to grasp that my friend did what she did cause I would have kept the baby no matter how hard life is. Any opinion will be appreciated. Thank you.

Ugly Baby............? A lady and her baby get on a bus. The bus driver looks at the lady, and then her baby, and then screams, "AHHHH! That's the ugliest child I've ever seen in my life!" The lady then, totally disgusted, marches up to the back of the bus to sit down. As she was sitting there absolutely furious, a man asks, "Are you ok, dear?" The lady replies, "I'm so angry, that bus driver just insulted me." The man says, "You go back up there and give that bus driver a piece of your mind, and I'll watch your monkey."

Ugly baby..??!!? A lady and her baby get on a bus. The bus driver looks at the lady, and then her baby, and then screams, "AHHHH! That's the ugliest child I've ever seen in my life!" The lady then, totally disgusted, marches up to the back of the bus to sit down. As she was sitting there absolutely furious, a man asks, "Are you ok, dear?" The lady replies, "I'm so angry, that bus driver just insulted me." The man says, "You go back up there and give that bus driver a piece of your mind, and I'll watch your monkey."

What is that life time movie called when the lady thought her baby died in a fire but someone really kidnapped? her she found her daughter years later its a life time movie. and do you know where i can watch it free on the enternet.

God makes the pregnant lady have a baby (God gives them life) Right? God makes the pregnant lady have a baby (God gives them life) Right? Why does God give babies to people in bad surroundings? Why does he give some better opportunities (better lifes) than others? I know people make their own desicions, but it is your surroundings that hurt you too. Why does he give bad people (babies)? Does this make sense to you?

How essential for a lady to have a baby? CAn she be without and still doing ok in life ?

i have a 2 year baby with a certain lady and now the lady is all going out sleeping around.what do i do.? i have been together with this lady for 3 years now.we have one child and i am the one mostly taking care of the little girl.i pick her up from school every day.the baby lives with this lady's mum.right now,im completely heart broken all because of the suspected games the girl is playing.she doesnt always come home to see the child and she deny anything i ask her.what do i do now.

What are the risks of a change of life baby? I can re-call my Mother specking of a lady that had a change of life baby. I had a friend tell me today she thinks she is PG and is 43. she is very up-set she thought she was going threw the change. Are they risks and if so what are they? Thanks. I wanted to add I also had a friend that had a little boy at 41 he had Hidrosislic (think I mispelled) as we were kids it was known as water on the brain she always thought it was her age because she was in perfect health.

Ladies: Baby, have you found your "Halo" in life? IM a guy and I have found mine. I love you Janesaa! <3 siempre

I love one lady whole my life and know she needs me? I loved her from kinder garden. Then at school. But unfortunately she moved to another city and our lives separated. Recently I found her through the internet. Well 10 years past. And she's got a baby already. But her husband turned out a bustard and left them. I still love her and she does I think. Should I be with her guys?

why do some get life without parol,and some get the death penality? Just like what is the difference between 1st degree then 2nd degree,and why are some just sentenced to the dealth penality instead of life,or vice versa,,,Today I saw that kid get life for cutting off the head of a man. Instead of him geting dealth,why is that? A lady killed her baby,got life,why? Susan in NC got life why? How come none of these killers get the Death Penality??

what the first 6 weeks of baby's life like for you? my son had bad colic and i remember being exhausted, frustrated, and slept about 4 hours of broken sleep...yet when i watch the show "A Baby Story", thos ladies have to "wake up baby to eat at night" and are all calm and rested. i dont get it...

A lady and her baby..? A lady and her baby get on a bus. The bus driver looks at the lady, and then her baby, and then screams, "AHHHH! Thats the ugliest child I"ve ever seen in my life!" The lady then, totally disgusted, marches up to the back of the bus to sit down. As she was sitting there absolutely furious, a man asks, "Are you ok, dear?" The lady replies, "I"m so angry, that bus driver just insulted me." The man says, "You go back up there and give that bus driver a piece of your mind, and I"ll watch your monkey."

What should a a lady with a baby do when her husband cheats on her and is now begging for forgivness? The wife doesnt trust her husband anymore and doesnt know what she should do. they were childhood sweet hearts and knew each other for 15 years when they got married. her life is shattered and so is her trust in him and everyone else. its affecting her peace of mind, her work, and ability to think staight. they have tried meeting a counsellor but nothing is helping. could you please help her?

White lady with a Black baby, what are your thoughts ? Out in public. In a supermarket. In a public place. Or.... How about a Black lady with a White baby ? Its just a question, if your offended by it. (Grow up + get a life).

What's the name of that Lifetime movie where this lady is trying to take over a doctor lady's life? She sabotages her practice by working as a nurse and mixes up lab test results and tries to run over her husband in a car? I think she steals a baby, too.

I have a friend who lives with a young beautiful lady and they have a cute baby girl but he asked me out? it is hard for me to understand cause he says he is so happy with his wife (no formal marriage but he calls her that) and the baby girl, still he lives in another city and he asked me if I would like him to come visit me for us to be together. Of course I didnt accept but what makes males want for that? I would think his life was happy and complete. I asked him why he was like that he said he didnt really feel anything missing but he just still wanted to enjoy life without hurting anyone. Can anyone explain me why so many guys are like this?

Has anyone seen a movie about a lady that lives in a wal mart, and has a baby? If so, what's it called?

Ladies (or men), how long after having a baby did your sex life resume? Was that time ok with you? or would you have liked it to resume later or sooner than it did?

about a girl that has to do all these things to get her baby bro back. its an old 1? its an old movie from the 90s maybe late 80s. and the girl has to go thru a maze and gets help from weird creatures to get to where her baby brother is with this guy. theres a lady that lives in like a landfill? please help!

Ex Parte,Divorce and Lady and Baby 1000 miles away .......? just wisihing I could have told her how much I respect her love her and will do what I can to help her in her pursuit of happiness in life and I only wanted happiness for her in life and that the investors are in Illinois today. Anyone else unable to tell their wife Happy Mothers Day on her first Mothers Day?

What was the country video where the pregnant lady dies? it was a really old video....maybe like 8 years ago. and the wife was pregnant and like fell into a pond and hit her head. she dies, but the baby lives. i just wanted to know what song that was. thanks!

What is the process of adopting a baby boy at the age of 5? Im writing a novel and in it a Lady and man adopted a baby boy at the age of 5. Well they think they did but the forms got mixed up and they get a girl at the age of 14. Could this happen in real life? If not what could happen that they end up with a girl at the age of 14 instead of a boy at the age of 5? Thank you so much!

ladies, if you had to choose which one will you pick - Your career or having a baby and family life? if okay state why you would make that choice. it sounds stupid, but hypothetically speaking if you could only make one choice which one would it be? Be very honest. ty.

Of these 6 people in a life raft, who would you kick out and why? You're in a life raft in the middle of the ocean. You need to throw one person overboard to their certain death in order for the other 5 to be guaranteed survival. If all 6 stay in the raft, everybody dies. In the life raft are: you the president a kidnapper a middle-aged doctor a 100-year-old lady a 3-month-old baby Who would you pick to get thrown out and why?

Do you feel unattractive after having a baby? I have a 5 month old son who I absolutely adore but cant help feeling so yuk after having him! Rory was 10LB 11 OZ and I am quite petite so the extent of stretchmarks and loose skin is quite extensive. I feel like my husband is not attracted o me anymore- while knowing that our sex life was sure to change after having a baby. Any words of wisdom ladies?

what is that movie where a lady has her baby in a walmart? i want to know the name of this movie i think it is the type of movie to come on life time it starts with a pregnant woman running into a walmart type store to buy some sandals and he boyfriend waits in the car ans when she comes out he is gone he left her at the store and then she ends up staying in the store over night and has her baby there...she ends up getting a job there....i don't remember the name of the movie but it is kind of old but not that old and i think i saw it on lifetime... thank you i have been wondering that for a while

i have a 2 year old baby with a certain lady and now the lady is all going out sleeping around.what do i do.? i met a lady about 3 years ago and we developed love for each other.we decided to stay together and very fortunately we had a child together.we decided to get married so that the kid will have some parental love but very unfortunately this lady's father didnt agree to the marriage.we had to stay apart and care for the child.the child is now 2 years of age and has started school.the lady has also found a job and working now.i have now been seeing some bad signals from this lady that she is dating somebody else.when i ask her,she deny it.i have asked her several times and she always deny it.i am soo confused,stress and very heart broken.i really dont know her like that but the signs im seeing from her are all negative signs that she is probably up to something but when i ask her,she denies it.i feel this is going to affect the child because i want to break up with this lady and move on with my life.please advice me. thank you all

I am looking for a lady who is desperate to have a baby, donor available? I know there are many women out there who want to have a baby but as time goes by they just have not found the right man. i would like to help as a clean healthy donor who is willing to have no contact and allow you to live your life after helping you start your family.

POLL : which song you shall sing ? which song you shall sing if your BF/GF cheat with you ? i would like to sing ... this one !!! Get out of my life (Lady lily) Baby,you`re back,too late,too late After the fact,i`m fine without you I`m not alone,no more no more Better move on,don`t care about you Time can fly,love gone by Creeps around on the sly Get out of my life I`m not your fool Get out of my heart You know the rule The past is forever The future togather Just faded away Get out of my life Your bird has flown Get out of this heart You`ll never own `cause all my affection Has found a derection A new game to play Get out of my life Baby,i know you`re sad,so sad Why did you go if were losing Now that i`m free ain`t that too bad It`s up to me to do the choosing Tell no lie,You know i Can be strong if i try I`ll pretend i never heard Your footsteps on the stair I`ll pretend your final word Has vanished from the air Get out of my life...A new game to play :) And this song too ... Go now, dont look back, weve drawn the line Move on, its no good to go back in time Ill never find another girl like you, for happy endings it takes two Were fire and ice, the dream wont come true Chorus: Sara, sara, storms are brewin in your eyes Sara, sara, no time is a good time for goodbyes Danger in the game when the stakes are high Branded, my heart was branded while my senses stood by Ill never find another girl like you, for happy endings it takes two Were fire and ice, the dream wont come true Sara, sara, storms are brewin in your eyes Sara, sara, no time is a good time, oh Sara, sara, storms are brewin in your eyes Sara, sara, no time is a good time for goodbyes (cos sara) loved me like no one has ever loved me before (and sara) hurt me, no one could ever hurt me more (and sara) sara, nobody loved me anymore (guitar solo) Ill never find another girl like you Were fire and ice, the dream wont come true Sara, sara,

I have married a really rich French lady, she lives in france do i still have to pay childsupport? My baby's mama dont needs it she gots a good job working as an accountant for a car dealer. and I only give like 2000 a month... ps i never really liked those kids any way cuz she dont let me see'em merci people even though im moving to France naah it was all her she was the one to forget to take the pills, so we had the twin boys

should I give my baby up for adoption? I am having a baby girl (due Nov 30th). I wanted to give her up for adoption so she ca have a better life. I am 24 yrs old, and I have 3 children already. Their father has left us recently and started seeing another lady. I am living with my parents and I really feel like the child would have a better life with a 2 parent home with a mom and dad that can take care of her properly. I just want the best for my baby girl.I am doing the best I can with the ones I have, I am going to school so I can get a decent job and get us our own place but, it is so hard. I just want to do the right thing and want my children to have great lifes. I feel like I cannot raise another child, that I would be spreading myself too thin. What should I do? I really don't appreciate the rudeness of some people. I just wanted an opinion, I know that I should have been on birth control, I am getting my tubes tied. I just wanted some kind words, I am already going through enough. Also, I am not a whore, I have been with the same guy for 11 yrs!

Do you think she will have another baby? Lady i baby sit 4 has 3 yo and 1 yo husband has 12yo from previous marriage. (lives with his mum) just moved from 3 br house to 4 bedroom. the other day i found a pregnancy test one used one not in bathroom. also she leaves her pill in bathroom so she on that. do u think she will have another bub or not? I care becasuse i am the childrens main carer im not poking around i actually USE the toilet in the BATHROOM iits not my fault she leaves them for all to see

i have a 19 yr old lady, she is talking 2 a 26 yr old man with 3 kids 2 baby mothers and i am trying not-? to interfer with her decesion and let her see for herself that he is to old 4 her . her dad is having a fit. i have explain to this old man that she is to young she is just starting her life . what does he want with my lady. i don't want to hurt him but i will.

how do you get rid of a todler on sims life storys? i have a sim who is going to have a baby, and then an abdobtion lady came and gave me a kid for no reason at all!! help!

Three men and a baby and Three men and alittle lady.? A question for all those who have seen them and loved them. Do you think they should make another one now? I think it would be great to see how the three men can handle Mary(the litlle lady) grow up and start dating and making a life for herself. SHE WOULD PROBABLY BE ABOUT 20 NOW

iam a black woman,am pregnant,how can i make my baby have a beaultiful body,and a pointed nose? a black lady ,lives in south africa and in school.

What is this lady thinking? Octo-mom fired her free nurses from Angels In Waiting? She's trying to eff up her kids' life. She wasn't happy with the way their lawyer had bad mouthed her. Really? What about the kids? This lady is insane. I wish I could help those babies.

Is my baby too big for me to deliver? I am going to be induced on Saturday because I am 41 weeks. I had an ultrasound yesterday and found out that she is going to be around 8 1/2 lbs at delivery. This is a pound more than I thought. Anyways I am 5'5, use to be 120lbs(now 175). I kind of have narrow hips. Has any ladies around this size delivered naturally a baby this size successfully? I am worried because I don't want to risk her life to deliver naturally if I can't. Thanks!!

Where are you guys buying baby's easter suits from? I'm looking for a suit for my 10 month old son. His first easter suit! He and his cousin (she's 4 weeks his junior) are supposed to coordinate because they are the two newest family members. Me and her mom decided the accent color should be yellow. I work alot so most of my shopping is done online. But I can't for the life of me find an affordable baby's suit that incorporates yellow. You ladies have been such a great help for me these past couple days. Can I test your fashion knowledge once again?

Is my idea to move to China and live in the mountains a viable solution to life's problems? I love Asians, love cold mountains, &c. I want to live like the movie "The Road Home" with Ziyi Zhang, in a cold little hut and marry a warm little Chinese lady, and have lots of babies, and go hiking, and chop wood. I'm an atheist so I'd fit right in, right? I'm not a f'ing commie though. How much cash do I need to start and invest in business to survive there. Is Tibet like China? Or Mongolia?